The Flower By The Pond
*The Flower By The Pond*
This song was written in memory of my dear friend Debbie. While it tells our story, I hope it also brings comfort to anyone who carries someone they miss in their heart.
This song is a deeply personal acoustic ballad about friendship, love, loss, and the quiet ways memories continue to live long after someone is gone. Inspired by a true story, the song reflects on an eighteen-year friendship that began online, grew across oceans, and became a lasting part of two lives.
Together they built a virtual place in Second Life - one creating landscapes filled with trees, flowers, and peaceful places, the other writing the code that brought it all to life. Though time has passed and the virtual world itself has faded, one simple symbol remains in memory: a flower by a pond, forever blooming as a tribute to someone who is deeply missed.
The lyrics celebrate a woman who faced cancer with extraordinary courage, treasured every extra day life gave her, and never allowed distance to diminish a friendship. They remember late-night conversations, joyful video calls, shared projects, and the small everyday moments that become priceless after someone is gone.
Rather than focusing only on grief, *The Flower By The Pond* is ultimately a song of enduring connection. It reminds us that the people we love never truly disappear. They remain in the places we created together, in the routines we still catch ourselves sharing with them, and in the quiet moments when memory feels almost like presence.
A gentle tribute to a remarkable friend, and a reminder that love leaves footprints in places time can never erase.
"Not goodbye... just until we meet again."
The story behind the song
I song I wrote for my dear friend Debbie after she passed away. We met in the virtual world of Second Life in 2008 and were together both virtually and in real life until 2025.
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Lyrics
Eight months gone, but the silence ain't won
Your laughter still lives in the back of my mind
I can close my eyes and hear your voice
Like a church bell carried on the wind through time
I still remember that first hello
A glowing screen on a midnight shore
Two strangers talking across the sea
And neither one was a stranger anymore
You drew the paths and planted the trees
Touched every flower with careful hands
I wrote the code that made it breathe
And together we built our promised land
There's still a flower by the pond tonight
Growing where the sunset meets the sky
Your name blooms high above the leaves
While digital stars drift slowly by
And when the world gets cold and dark
I go back there and sit awhile
You may be gone from this side of life
But I still meet you in that smile
You fought for every borrowed day
Held on harder than most ever knew
Some folks throw their lives away
You cherished every breath life gave to you
You beat that cancer not once but twice
And I'll never forget that video call
You showed me the first new strands of hair
And we sat there grinning, saying nothing at all
An ocean stood between our hands
A thousand reasons we couldn't stay
But whenever your flight schedule gave you wings
You crossed that water anyway
There's still a flower by the pond tonight
Growing where the sunset meets the sky
Your name blooms high above the leaves
While digital stars drift slowly by
And when the world gets cold and dark
I go back there and sit awhile
You may be gone from this side of life
But I still meet you in that smile
The servers faded
The years moved on
The world we built should have been gone
But love leaves footprints in strange places
Hidden in code and forgotten spaces
Sometimes while repairing old watches
I still catch myself turning to speak
Like you're sitting right beside me
The way you did every week
There's still a flower by the pond tonight
Rooted deep in memory's ground
And every drop of digital rain
Keeps your spirit safe and sound
Eighteen years was far too short
We should have had eternity
But when the evening sun goes down
You're still there waiting for me
So I'll water that flower one more time
And watch the golden daylight bend
We'll hold hands beside the pond again
Not goodbye...
Just until we meet again.
slow tempo, 72 BPM, emotional guitar solo, memorable chorus, acoustic intro, radio-ready production
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